Life is managing trade-offs

Life is not infinite. It is not perfect. Life is not all-or-nothing. Life is a precarious balancing act between wants and needs and safety and adventure. We have all heard that time is money, but it is so much more than that. Time can also be used or substituted for safety. Time can be spent

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This time is different

This is one of numerous little lies that we tell ourselves over and over again throughout our lives. It makes sense for a small child to fall victim to this mirage. It makes much less sense for us grown-ups. And, as with essentially everything else in life, this is completely false and utterly true at

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We are all in the closet

The closet is not just a hiding place for those battling sexual identity issues, it is an enormous equal opportunity host for virtually all of us. We all have something that we are closeted about. Maybe we are “out” to a few safe friends or a small circle in those in our life, but many

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Life is a long game of Sudoku

First off, a little primer on Sudoku for those unfamiliar with it. Sudoku is a fun, simple, yet challenging game….much like life. There is a very symmetric nine by nine grid that contains numbers one through nine. Each row, each column, and each of the nine smaller squares comprising the larger square contain the numbers

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We all think that we are normal

We all think that our experiences and beliefs and fears and wants are normal. We secretly think of ourselves as “the” yardstick to measure everything off of. If you went to college and don’t smoke and don’t like heights, then you think that that is true for everyone, and everyone’s friends! This has been true

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